What’s the worst thing that’s ever happened to me on stage? I got asked this question last month in a Q&A I did for new speakers with Aspiring Women Speakers. And it gave me flashbacks to when I was just getting into speaking and was so
I find it surprising that the end of the month always seems to sneak up on me, even though I shouldn't be surprised. It's hard to believe that we're already halfway through the year and that I've been freelancing for 6 months
Figuring out what energises you can be such an eye-opener! Last month, I had an amazing but extremely busy week with 4 events: the LeadDev London speaker mixer, then 2 days at the LeadDev London conference, followed by a fourth day of LeadingEng London. Now I used to consider myself
One of the questions I get asked most at conferences? “Where did you get that bag?” It's not what you'd expect, right? It happened to me again at LeadDevLondon and LeadingEng last week. For the past 6 years, I’ve been addicted to the wonderful bag
It was 11pm when I got the phone call. “We’ve had a speaker dropout for tomorrow. I know it’s last minute, but would you be up for giving your talk?” It was the evening before LeadDev London in 2019, and I was being asked if I wanted to
And just like that, it's June! It's only 3 weeks since I did the last monthly roundup post, and that time has gone by quickly. I'd love to know which parts of this post you find most intriguing, or if there's anything
One of the pieces of advice that I got told so many times over the years is that if I wanted to get over my speaking anxiety, I just needed to do more talks. That the more you do it, the easier it gets and that you just need to
I know, I know, we're almost halfway through May, and I'm only now posting my April roundup. We've had another bank holiday weekend here in the UK, plus I was at a conference for most of last week (CTO Craft Con) and again that&
Dealing with grief is hard. It’s complicated. And sad. Last Friday, I lost my cat Casey to cancer. He’d been battling it for 2.5 years, and despite him being so fierce and brave, the cancer caught up with him. I wasn’t sure whether to post something
With the long bank holiday the past weekend and me taking some much-needed holiday, it‘s a slightly late roundup post this month. We’re almost a week into April, but I didn't want to skip doing the March edition of these monthly roundup posts. They’ve been
Let’s talk about boosting your confidence right before you need to give a talk! Picture this: you’re waiting for your talk to start - maybe you’re backstage, listening to the previous speaker, or maybe you’re behind your desk waiting for that important meeting. Wherever you are,
Once upon a time, there was a little girl called Melinda. Melinda was a very shy girl and if there was one thing she thoroughly disliked it was telling stories to other people. Now Melinda’s school though had this activity every Monday morning, where all the kids would sit
So, you've sat down to come up with a new talk idea, you're looking at your screen/paper, you've got your list of prompts in front of you and yet... your mind is still blank. Why can't you come up with any
I used to be addicted to hackathons. For me, they were always about more than just the code; they were also about teamwork, collaboration and communication. I learned so much from attending them, that I would take every opportunity I could to go to them. At this point, I'
Imagine you're planning a vacation and you need to book a hotel. You have two options. The first one has no website, no reviews, and no pictures of the rooms – just a name and a phone number. The second option: a well-designed website with clear descriptions of rooms,
Happy Bonus February Day! February went by so quickly. I know it's the shortest month of the year, but even then it felt like it just swept by. Because of that, I suspect that this will be a shorter blog post this month. Thank you to everyone who